Is your life running well? Do you think everything that is happening around you is right? Are you happy with your relationships? Are you satisfied with your job?
If your answer is a “Yes” to all the questions, you are doing great in life. You, therefore, don’t need to read this article. It is not for you.
However, if you answered with a ‘No’ to one or more of the questions, I have something to share.
Here are four reasons why you aren’t happy with your present situation and why you are solely responsible for it.
Yes, you are accountable and no one else. So here we go.
1. The world needs something from you.
— You need to add value to the people’s lives. If not, you are junk for the world and, therefore, no one will give a shit about you.
Just figure out why the F*CK should they care? Are you providing them value? Are you helping them with anything?
If you aren’t making their life easier or happier in any fuc-king way, they won’t care about you. NO one will do that. (Exceptions are always there)
Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.
If you are doing everything right, but still aren’t able to get desired exposure, you are in the wrong room.
You are beer, to live life on your terms; you need to come out of the bottle. Once you are out of it, you can get into any glass that fits best to you.
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2. People want to be benefited.
It is not essential for people to know whether you make money or not. All they want to know is if you can help them.
Think of you as a guy running after the prettiest girl in your neighborhood, how can you get her? The answer is simple – Offer her value that no one else can. You need to have certain qualities to you, which she is looking for. Just being a good man won’t get you the girl.
Beautiful Girls deal with dozens of good guys every single day, why should she give a shit about you? You can her get to talk to you only if you are successful/famous/extremely handsome or maybe too lucky.
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3. You need to do the work
Crying the whole day and night won’t get you what you want. You need to give up on your excuses and do something about it, not just something, but something significant.
It will take time, but don’t get freaked out and keep working towards your goal. The more you fail, the higher is your chance of being successful.
Instead of reading books like “How to be the kind of guy that girls love,” read books like “How to be a Better Man.” The former one will make you do lots of things, which includes changing yourself for her. However, the latter has more chances of success.
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4. No one cares about what you are from inside.
The beauty of the heart is a myth until you prove them. Just having a soft heart for the poor, while not helping them in any manner is useless. Shedding your fake tears over the poor without assisting and caring for them, in reality, is a bitchy behavior. Either do the work for them or forget about them.
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