Nice guys are always the last to enter your life.
But, what about the guys who act nice but are not? Got the idea about what we are talking about? These guys are one among those who say they are “nice,” but in reality are douchebags.
They act the opposite of what they say.
They get offended when you tell them that they aren’t behaving nicely. These guys act like A-holes once you start to figure them out.
Here are few signs that suggest you are dating a Nice Guy, who is actually a douchebag.
1. He gets pissed when you let him know is not being nice.
As you are picking up the clues that he is not a nice guy, you might throw up few non-offensive lines like, “you are mean!”, or “you are a jerk,” but he takes all these too seriously and argues with you about it.
Not only this, he might even show up his real face by saying something bad about you.
If this is the case with you, just stay away from him.
2. He insults you indirectly.
Instead of saying, “This dress doesn’t suit you,” he will say “You aren’t looking pretty.”
Understand how he is expressing his feelings without trying to let you know that he is insulting you.
He is acting nice while in reality, he is not!
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3. He is nicer to other girls.
Yeah, we must be nice to everyone.
However, if he is more helpful to the girl sitting next to you than he is with you, he is surely trying to get along with that girl too.
He is just making more and more options for him.
Sure, outsiders find this attitude of the fake nice guy as friendly. But, know that you have been trying to start a conversation with this guy all night, and he didn’t even give a shit about it.
The other girl in the room might love him, but you are just not sure enough if you do the same.
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4. He flirts with other girls when you are away.
He is fun. He is flirty. That’s the reason why he was able to steal your heart. But, don’t you think that he shouldn’t be flirting with other random girls at a party? Even if you are a bit okay with it, he takes the act to a level that’s more than acceptable.
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5. He talks but it’s never about you.
Conversations are never meant to be one sided.
You talk about yourself, share something interesting about you, but somehow it always ends up with him.
No, it doesn’t mean that you are too deeply in love with him, but it means that he is a douchebag who doesn’t want to hear about others.
All he wants to talk about is – Me, Me and More Me’s. You listen to whatever he says because you are nice and don’t want to be another jerk like him.
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6. He gets upset when he doesn’t get what he wants.
So, called nice guys (FAKE), can easily manipulate the situation. No matter what, it is never their fault. You are at fault whenever he gets upset.
If he wants you to join that party, you need to. He want’s to get along with you, you need to let him in.
If not, he will be upset and manipulate the situation in such a way that you will feel all the guilty.
You didn’t see him from the past two days, not because he was wrong, but because the blame was pushed on you quickly.