21 is a magical number for everyone, and it’s always special. You can finally marry the girl of your dreams, get a credit card, drink beer, play at Vegas or do whatever you want.
At 21, we often have many friends who have chosen the wrong path. Of course, people learn from their mistakes, but it is wise to learn from others mistakes. These six things will help you in shaping your future.
Years from now, you will be far more embarrassed by how you handled an embarrassing and humiliating situation rather than the experience itself, so be true to yourself and your wants, be the bigger person, and hold your head high.
There will be stressful days, and your friends might offer you a cigarette, just say, “NO.” The cigarette was never made to solve problems and never will.
If you are tensed about that “something,” go and fight it, don’t be a coward by trying to solve your problems with the help of drugs and Alcohol.
There will also be a time when your friends will force you to try it once, resist those moments. No matter what I write here, the final call always depends on you.?
YOU are the only one who can say NO to such bad influences; it’s your mental strength.
There is NO Shortcut
Shortcuts do not exist in reality. Stop living in a world of fantasy; everything looks super easy in dreams, but that’s why we call it a “dream” anyway. Face reality! You have to take stair for your success; there are no elevators. Just ask yourself, “Am I working hard enough to achieve my dreams in the next X Years?”
You will get the honest answer right that instant. Your inner voice never lies.
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Make Traveling Your Hobby
“Travel while you’re young and able. Don’t worry about the money, just make it work. Experience is far more valuable than money will ever be.”
Travel as much as you can. You will learn many new things. Every year, go to a place you’ve never been before. Traveling can teach you things that books can never.
Overcome Your Fears
We all have fears in our life. Some have stage fear; some have low confidence, and some can’t communicate with unknown people.
Frankly telling you I was having the all the three listed here, but I conquered them all.
Remember that you have to overcome your fears, it’s the battle in your mind, and you need to win. Once you overcome your fears, no power in this world can stop you from being successful.
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Always Be Optimistic
Words determine our future. No matter what your situation is, don’t use your words to describe the situation but use them to change your future. You know what? The first place we lose the battle is our in mind so always be optimistic.