Humans are the finest creation of God. They have the capacity and capabilities to dream. Yes, dream really big and also they have ways to make those dreams come true. Nowadays, it is not at all difficult to make impossible possible for certain people.
But here is where the beliefs come into the picture. You might have seen a few beliefs which have changed the lives of many people. They can change your life. But do you think that there are certain beliefs in your mind which might be holding you back in your life? Yes, there are many such beliefs and here is a small list from that very big list…
You don’t really show yourself
Many people have a fear that they will not be loved when they showcase what they actually are. They want them to be loved at all the times and hence pretend to be what they actually are not. This is not always possible to fake people. There are people who can see beyond what you are actually showing and then you cannot do anything. So, just be yourself and see what fun it is to be just you.
You don’t ask because you doubt
Many people always, do not ask for anything. They are happy with what they get. But that is not true. They do not ask because they are worried about the rejections. There is nothing wrong with trying even if you will have to hear a rejection. You should try at least.
Further Reading: 7 Best Practices to Stop Worrying About Being Perfect
I do not worth anything
If you always keep saying this to yourself, then you need to ask that person in your life to whom you mean everything. You might already be having this kind of people for whom you mean a lot. So, never let that belief occupy your mind.
You don’t trust because you fear betrayal
This is something that many people say. Yes, they might have been ditched by someone in the past. But when you are not like that person who ditched you or betrayed you, then why do you think that everyone is like that only? There are different people on this earth and life moves on with trust. So, never stop trusting people around you just because you had one wrong person in the past. Your future has a lot of surprises for you in the store.
Further Reading: How to Listen to Your Heart, When Your Mind Disagrees
It’s too late
This is something that you get to hear very often. But that is not the right way. It is never too late to do anything good in life. If you think that you would have been in a better place if you had completed that degree, then just go for it, you have distance learning colleges. You can join them and then get the degree. You will soon see that there is no age limit for anything. You can do anything when you really want to do.
Feeling of stuck up
There are situations in life when you are not happy at all. That may be because of your health, your work, your life partner, your kids or anything in your life. You get a lot of negative thoughts in the mind. That is when you feel like quitting life. But did you anytime for a second think that nothing in life is going to last for a long time? Yes, you cannot see any phase of life lasting for a longer time. You are not stuck up at any situation, it is just for some time you are held up in that state and nothing else.
Further Reading: How to Take Back Your Life When You’re Feeling Too Busy
I am bad for any relationship
Another belief that many people have in their mind and living half of their lives with that belief only. It is just that they are not interested in coming out of it. There is no relationship in this entire world who did not have a fight among themselves. There can be many reasons behind it and it is not always you who is responsible for it. So, you need not have to worry. Rather get the reason for you being so sad.
Just stop thinking about any of these if you have them in your mind. Just be like you are because you are one of the best that ever lived in this world.