Can Best Friends Be Lovers?

Can Best Friends Be Lovers?


Friends and partners are, for a large number of people, completely separate categories, something that is best not to interfere. Yes, it can be developed something among friends. But, there is always a dilemma: what if the relationship doesn’t work, and then we lose a good friend? Maybe it’s better not to start anything – just in case. Thus, we are at least sure that we will always have a trusted friend, and this is something – a much, actually.

Before you try to escape from the zone of friendship, consider: There is a chance to lose the friendship if things don’t go according to plan. If he/she already takes a significant part in your life, maybe you should find a new person, and keep her/him as a friend who can help you with that.

If you’re sure you want to, it’s a good thing you don’t have to use different tricks to get better. You have insight into her/his interests and what she/he expects from the person, and you can use this information to your advantage.

 

According to friends, we have different expectations than the partners

Can Best Friends Be Lovers

Friendly and a partnership feelings do not always have the same starting point. We know that we have a good friend for whom we cannot even think that we would have a relationship with him because of the partners we have largely different expectations and demands than from a friend. A friend often covers areas and holes that partner cannot, or don’t even need to cover because the partner isn’t someone who would have been enough by itself. If partner could satisfy your every need, then he would be all your friends in one person, in addition to your exceptional lover. The fact is that the partner is, in a sense, your best friend, and your confidant. However, this friendship is very different, and much about the others stems from a good partnership based on trust.

Further Reading: How To Get Your Crush To Like You

 

Often the attraction between friends is nonreciprocal

We know that the friendship with the opposite sex is usually based on attractiveness, at least on one side. With such an appeal can be a big problem, especially if it is nonreciprocal. And that is the recognition of a deeper meaning in all that friend says. Waiting for a call. Neglecting other friends and, above all, the failure of other opportunities in the hope that they will turn a blind friend and identify what we want. These are all problems that may occur.

However, there are people who think that a good friendship is a crucial starting point for a good partnership. It’s not rare that they were initially just friends, colleagues, and now goes out for a drink. One of them stays at that, and the other, with each drink, build in mind a staircase to heaven.

 

What to do if we want an affair with a friend?

Can Best Friends Be Lovers

This may involve a lot of effort and change some habits. Begin to miss him/her. And just a note, maybe he/she will not miss you at all. However, it is likely that he/she will call you in a few days. Arrange a meeting. Lead your conversation, and in a direction that you would rather prefer, and in a way that for you isn’t the most common. On this, “different meeting” you can finally tumble the word through the mouth and express your intentions. Maybe your words are what will encourage your partner to express his/her interest to you. Unfortunately, there are some different scenarios, and you should be prepared for such an outcome. The outcome in which your friendship, at least for a time, will be quite marked by your attempt.

In general, we, women are the ones that usually have separate categories of friendship and partnership. The men usually leave the door open in the way of possible research. Sometimes we are at the beginning really clumsy, and we don’t know exactly what we want. But try to brace up yourself as soon as possible, because girls don’t grow on trees and they will surely encounter someone who will know how to rise to the right horse and take her on the wings of love wind, away from you.


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