We men can do any task on the planet without thinking thrice. However, when it comes to asking a girl out, we don’t even know how many times we think about it.
Sometimes we think so much and get so damn confused, that we decide to leave it as-it-is.
We can fight anyone and fix anything. But asking a girl out is a nightmare. If you are shy in front of girls, this post will help you to gather the courage to go and ask out the girl you have been thinking for months.
1. Every Women Likes a Confident Man
A confident person who can confess his love for her is what every girl wants. Being a shy guy is acceptable, but why should any girl date you when you can’t even confess your feelings for her?
Moreover, not everyone is the same. Some girls don’t understand if you like her more than a friend or you are just sweet to her.
So, make sure you let her know your feelings before it gets too late.
Further Reading: How To Tell If A Girl Likes You
2. You Can Save Yourself from Being Friendzoned
Girls can easily shift you from *maybe be the next* to their *Friend Zone*.
Everyone knows the consequences of being friend zoned.
Staying away from the friend zone is hard, as it ultimately the girl’s decision to let you know your place in her life.
However, there’s a way to avoid being friend zoned.
The way is — By letting her know about your feelings. Of course, it doesn’t mean that you won’t get friend zoned, but you will make her think about you.
Further Reading: 7 Signs You Are About to get Friend Zoned
3. Don’t Let The Chemistry Fizzle Out
A lot of potential love stories end. Not because one of the partners was rejected, but one of them was too shy to speak his/her heart.
So, go and confess your feelings to your crush before the heat of the moment fizzles out.
Once it does, you better know that you won’t be able to get her back.
So, it is better to make a smart move right now.
4. You Will Be Free
Once you ask her out, you will be completely free from worries.
You no longer have to shuffle your thoughts between “Yep, she likes me.”, “NO, she doesn’t.” You will have a clear answer. Don’t you get too tired thinking about all these? I am sure you do!
So, go out, ask her. If she answers a “YES,” you will be one of the luckiest guys, if you get a “NO,” you can try improving yourself.
You won’t regret this moment after five years thinking “what if?”.
5. Life is Unpredictable
We are swimming in waves of uncertainties. You will never know if the girl you have a crush on, thinks the same about you.
She might, or she might not have the same feelings, but asking her about it will make your path clear.
Instead of staying in a whirlpool of confusions, ask her. If your crush rejects you, just decide whether to stay or move on to something better.
Further Reading: How To Get Your Crush To Like You
6. It’s a Once In a Lifetime Feeling
Standing in front of the girl you like and confessing your feelings, is a thrilling experience.
The thumping of heart and the blood rushing to your head, as you hold her hands to utter the three magical words is really a once in a Lifetime experience.
Whether she accepts or rejects, you can at least experience the moment.
You might purpose few more girls while you are young. However, you would never get the same feelings again. Mind it.
Further Reading: 21 Good Questions To Ask A Girl
7. Getting Rejected is Not a Big Deal
We all have been rejected at least once for something or the other? So, What’s the big deal in getting rejected once again? All that’s going to happen between you and your Crush is that she will either accept your proposal or utter a clear “NO” in your face.
She isn’t going to break your nose there.
So, gather the courage and confidence to speak up.
8. You Will Be More Experienced
If she rejects you for some reason, you can work on it and be better prepared for your next proposal. Try, try and try again until you succeed.
9. You know That it Won’t Last Long
Most of the girls you date in your early twenties won’t even make up to your late twenties.
So, bear in mind that whether your proposal is accepted or rejected, it won’t last forever. All these are temporary, so enjoy the moments as much as you can without having any sorts of fear.
After all, all the good things in life lie beyond your fears.