Sometimes I think negativity is woven into the fabrics of human life. Yes, it’s true instead of being optimistic we waste our whole life being negative. Suppose if you are going for an interview we call defeat in our thinking even before our official interview has been started. “What if’s” are destroying our lives in every aspect. Strong people know how to keep their life in order. Even with tears in their eyes, they still managed to say “I’m okay with the smile”. We need to be mentally strong so that we can be successful in this world full of Idiots.
Don’t fear alone time.
Alone time will teach you so many things. So don’t you fear when someone broke your heart it’s okay to cry sometimes? We don’t grow in good times but we grow in tough times. It’s not necessary to follow the crowd every time sometimes you just need to be alone. Heartbreak, no money in your wallet and no job and you are still having a smile on your face is the sign of maturity. Alone time will not last so don’t you worry.
Don’t dwell on the past.
We waste most of our life thinking about the past. Suppose if we are getting into a new relationship then we will always seek that girl in the new girl from which we were ignored. Life is a journey with undefined time to an unknown destination. Even if your past was not good then you don’t need to dwell on that again and again. There is always a rainbow after a hurricane remember that.
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Don’t expect the immediate result.
You hit gym 2 days and you see yourself in the mirror and act like you are a “Bodybuilder”. Well, we all do that we want an immediate result. But you need to understand that we should not expect any kind of immediate result even the roots beneath the earth takes time.
Don’t worry about pleasing everyone.
No matter how good you are and no matter how kind you are you just can’t please anyone. So instead of pleasing everyone, do things that makes your heart happy. That’s a philosophy you need to follow.
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Don’t waste energy on things you can’t control.
We are wasting most of our lives in getting things that we want. Everything you want is not everything you need. A girl doesn’t accept your proposal it’s her choice. These type of things you can’t control so stop wasting your life in chasing mirage-like girls.
Don’t shy away from responsibilities.
Responsibilities are very important in life. They help a person to become mature and help them to know what actually the life and struggle are. If you are not shy from responsibility than you will be the most successful person in this world. Responsibility at right age will make your precious life successful and prosperous. Your comfort zone is keeping you out from your destiny.
Don’t give up after the first failure.
The person who lose hope after first failure is not psychological strong. Every billionaire in the world wasn’t successful at his first attempt but they tried and tried and now they are best in the world. So make yourself strong and think of your aim and concentrate on that one damn thing that you keenly want in your life.
Don’t fear to take a calculated risk.