How to Be Yourself

How to Be Yourself


When we are alone, instead of being ourselves and fully enjoy ourselves, most of us yearn for a relationship. However, in the relationship, we hide vital part of ourselves behind a mask, and then we wonder why we are unhappy. It is important that you learn to be yourself because it is an indispensable element to have high self-esteem.

 

What does it mean “being yourself”?

How to Be Yourself

It is when you accept yourself as you are and you act according to your particular way of being, without complexes, stereotypes or imitations of any kind. You are aware that you are different, and you enjoy it. You focus on using your strengths and overcoming weaknesses but also go without unconfiguring your individual essence.

 

Being yourself is the hallmark or individual identity:

Just as all people have the right to a name and a number of single card, there is also a hallmark of your personality. You have to make an effort to find yourself. You were born in a particular household with certain rules, beliefs, culture, traditions, etc. But there comes a time where you have to choose for yourself and find your own ideas.

When you visualise and fulfil purposes, then you realise you have the power in your hands to accomplish great things.

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Be yourself should not mean having a closed mind:

How to Be Yourself

Rather the opposite should happen because your divine identity is much more than appearances. When you explore your inner, you build an open mind that allows you to understand the universe better and take actions that help to help in a very small portion.

 

Learning to be yourself is essential to your personal development:

Your way to express yourself and doing things is unique. So, by working to refine your innate abilities can get amazing things.

If there is a moment in which you focus on the goals that lead you to success, then you already have learned to be yourself. Because you have no time to please others, you are focusing yourself on what you want, and that is an authority.

Further Reading: How To Motivate Yourself and Others

 

Do not waste time seeking pleasure in something that you know you do not like:

How to Be Yourself

If you are aware that you do not like something, then do not do. Defends the right to live in a way that fits you the best. It is true that you can get good advice, but only if they are in line with your aspirations and not with what others think.

People have wasted much of their lives trying to please others, but when there is an internal imbalance, you can never be happy, and a voice of concern will be clamouring for a change.

 

Never run alone with what you hear – researches, experiences:

Sometimes you hear an idea that you take as your own, but worth doing a great self-evaluation of ideologies and doubt everything until you get to live in harmony.

You have to experience, out into the world, see new things, research, etc. Only with that somewhat adventurous spirit, you will achieve to be yourself.

Further Reading: 25 Things To Do When You Feel Alone and Lonely

 

Involve others in creating your own reality

How to Be Yourself

Someone would have thought that to be oneself means to be independent regarding the relationship. On the contrary, to be ourselves, we have to be realistic, reality, as we know, involves concrete and many other issues that we prefer. The mistake many of us make when it comes to creating their reality, it happens at the moment when we should agree with others over what we share. We would like things to be a certain way and that there is no need necessarily for testing and comparing with the others. Frustration and satisfaction by the reality occur when we are sure that it cannot be so, and we wish to retreat from the relationship.

 

Famous quotes about the importance of being yourself

 

Be yourself; everyone else is already taken. ― Oscar Wilde

 

Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else. ― Judy Garland

 

A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself-and especially to feel, or not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at any moment is fine with them. That’s what real love amounts to – letting a person be what he really is. ― Jim Morrison

 

Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it. Bruce Lee

 

Be yourself. Be true to that, to your heart. Patience. See what happens if you step back instead of bounding forward. Nora Roberts

 

Best be yourself, imperial, plain, and true. ― Robert Browning

 

The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. – Friedrich Nietzsche

 

It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not. Andre Gide


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Bachelor of Philology. Always looks at things from a brighter side and thinks everything comes from the head. She believes that the most important thing is to fulfill time with the people and activities we love. She cannot imagine a day without laughter, cup of tea/coffee and good music.

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