Broke up with your girlfriend a few weeks ago, but want her back now? Do you want to know how to your ex-girlfriend back permanently? No? You don’t need to lie about that.
You think a simple dinner plan with your now ex would do the work, but it’s an entirely a wrong assumption.
It is never too late to rekindle with your ex. If you want to get back with your ex-girlfriend, you need to have an out of the world plan that is guaranteed to change her mind.
How you convince her to get back with you, is dependent on you. However, here are some tips that will help you to get her back in the least possible time.
#1 Message her
The best way to talk to your ex-girlfriend after a breakup is a text message. Directly calling her up won’t help much in this case.
Just send her a short and sweet message that contains some of the good memories you created with her. If reply backs with enthusiasm, she is still into you.
Remember, your absence might have made her heart grow fonder, or might have caused her to seek out another man. If the latter seems real, there is no going back.
#2 Don’t Rush
You both were perfect friends once, but that doesn’t mean that you will immediately get into the type of conversations you once had. That would just make her think that you are not interested in the relationship. You also don’t need to ask her to move together. Just a casual meet is excellent. Moving-in together will be huge a red flag to your girl.
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#3 Call her
If you were able to accomplish both steps with success, it’s time for the third move (calling her up).
Wait, what if you don’t have her number now? In this case, ask her to go for a dinner or concert of her favorite band. You can message her on social sites.
You can then ask for her number so that you can contact her before getting along. Seems Easy? Well, it is. Anyways, let us get back to the point.
While calling her up, try your best to register the most sincere effort. (Note: Accepting your invite, doesn’t mean that she is into you!)
If you feel that she is not ready to get back with you, just don’t beg for it! Cats appear cute while asking, but unfortunately, we are humans, and we don’t look as nice as them. If she is interested, she will be back at the right time. If not, let her go… You lost your chances!
#4 Say What You Feel
Did she accept your date too? It’s time for your fourth move. Be careful on how you present your feelings, if you don’t do it, you will miss a great chance.
Before erupting your feelings, ask everything about her – how’s she doing, how’s her dog, neighbors, jobs, friends, blah blah blah.
After you are over with her talks, just say how much you missed her while she wasn’t around. Make every move to make her feel that you missed her with all your heart and you want her back now.
Just focus on the positive sides, you don’t need to remind her of old wounds, lest will miss your chance.
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5# Make the move
If everything is going fine, she is most probably into you. You need to make the move just at the right time so that no one replaces your part while you are still figuring out how to say. If you did something wrong, make a serious apology for it.
Even if it was her, who was wrong. You need to take the blame on yourself. Seriously, women never believe that they might be a mistake.
Apologize and ask to get back with you as you are sincerely sorry for what you did and cannot live anymore without her.
Most probably, the odds will be on your side.
#6 Use the Friends circle
For most girls, a relationship isn’t only about Me & You. They want you to care about their friend circle too. Create happy memories by getting on outings with your mutual friends. But, make sure they don’t prevent you from talking with each other while you are on an outing.
That said, you should able to get along with your ex-girlfriend by now, and you both will have a much better and a healthy relationship than before.
Just don’t make your previous mistakes again.
If you are damn serious about the relationship, the next tip is for you!
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#7 Get her a ring
Caution: Don’t do this until and unless you are very serious about your girlfriend. Girls take these things very seriously, and if you are just doing this to set a ‘cool’ impression, you are committing your biggest mistake.
Well, there’s a positive side of this too, if she is interested she will accept the ring whole-heartily if not, you are just a FWB, and you need to forget her as a serious girlfriend.