How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

How to tell if a guy likes you? Well, it is quite hard to know when he is a shy guy.

Whether you agree or not, every girl at one point in time thought –  Does he like me or not? You like him, but you are simply not aware if the same feeling resides in your crush’s heart. Well, honestly speaking on behalf of the male gender, it is not that hard to find out if a guy likes you more than a friend. His actions should be enough to tell you If he likes you or not.

Anyways, I know that you are already confused and wondering how you can be sure, right? Wonder no more. Here are 21 telltale signs that a guy likes you. If you can relate to the points mentioned here. He likes you more than a friend.


How to Tell If A Guy Likes You — Signs He Likes You

How to know if a guy likes you

1. Endless Questions

If a guy keeps asking you questions, questions, and more questions. He is probably into you. He just wants to keep the conversation going on with you. Or maybe, he just wants to know your every aspect.

However, if he keeps the conversation going, it means he just can’t afford to let you go. Moreover, just see how he behaves, does he take a SPECIAL interest while talking to you or he acts just like a Normal friend? If you relate the later one with yourself, you will probably need some strong hints before concluding.


2. His Behavior

He acts differently when you are around. A boy would never do that until he likes you. Boys don’t give a damn about anything, so why should he act differently if he is not into you? If a guy wants you, he will try to act better in front of you. He might try to be quieter when you are around or just try to be cooler.

It all up to you, how able you are to differentiate his typical behavior from the one he pretends to be. Please don’t reject a guy for this silly reason? All he wants is to impress you, and if you reject him for being different in front of you, you will lose a good guy.


3. His Smile

Signs that a guy likes youIf he smiles at you lot, it could be another positive sign that he likes you. Some guys have a habit of smiling at every other thing, but that’s a different case. You probably would have understood what am I trying to say. Anyways if you didn’t, I have no problem explaining more in depth.

For an example, the guy is shy, but whenever he sees you, he smiles. He smiles not in a way to offend you but to give you a hint that he likes you (probably, more than a friend). It is just natural for guys to smile whenever they see their crush. Do pay a very close attention to his smile as well; it might just be a casual smile or a smile that suggests he is into you.


4. He Ignores

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

Although this can get complicated, a lot of guys ignore the girl they like. He might be doing so, because for two reasons. He either wants to know if you care or it is because he gets too shy and nervous in front of you. No matter what’s the reason, but if he ignores you without reason, he is probably into you.

On the other hand, it is even possible that he is totally not onto you. Maybe he ignores you because he doesn’t like certain characteristics of yours or something else. You need to get help from your friends who talk to him, just to find out what kind of feelings he has got for you.


5. He asked your number

How To Know If A Guy Likes You

Until and unless he has a degree in flirting, it is a giant sign that the guy likes you. He wants to keep in touch with you and is, therefore, asking for your number. He asked your number = he wants you! No more questions. A guy won’t ask your number unless he has some important work with you or you can help him in any other manner.

However, this depends on the situation too. If a guy comes to you and asks for your number because he doesn’t have any other mode of contact, that’s an entirely different thing. On the other hand, if he asks for you even if he can meet you daily, it is probably a sign that he likes you. Keep digging for more clues.


6. He connects with you on Social Media

If he adds you on Facebook, Follows you on Instagram, there is a chance that he likes you, he likes you at least a bit, if not more. To conclude more check out what he does after getting your request accepted.

Does he just keeps it there or take the friendship to a whole new level? I mean, does he like all your posts, pics, and every other thing even though you feel that it makes no sense to him? Well, in that case, he is probably mad for you. Also, keep a check on his messages, if he initiates the conversation every time and just keeps it going on, it is a very positive sign.

See point #1 for more explanation. (If you missed reading it)


7. Do you have a boyfriend?

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

It’s like hitting the bullseye in darts. No guy would ever ask you that question if he doesn’t have feelings for you. I repeat, Never. If he doesn’t like you, he will never give a damn. It is a very simple way of knowing whether you are already taken or available. If he doesn’t ask you straight, it can be a slightly modified question like “are you seeing anyone” or “do you have a roommate?”. These small questions can help you get a bigger picture of his feelings for you.


8. Accidental Touching

How To Tell If A Guy Likes YouDoes he touch you now and then? Well, not in the wrong manner but just in a decent and playful way? Well, it could be one of the biggest clues then. Guys love to touch their crushes, even in the slightest possible manner. Be it a small game of thumb wrestling or something else that allows him to touch you. If he does so, just be ready, a proposal is on your way.

Further Reading: How to Tell if a Guy is Flirting with You


9. He gets Jealous

How To Know If A Guy Likes You

He gets jealous when you talk to other guys. It is a sure sign that he likes you. When you are talking to other guys at the party or anywhere, he just gets to the highest level of jealousy. Of course, he will try to act as if nothing is wrong, but as soon as you turn your face aside he will be like… “what the heck is that j*** doing here” or “is she taking interest in that m***” and hundreds of more questions which probably can be heard by his soul.


10. He remembers every single thing you told him

Seriously, guys aren’t that good at remembering details, but if he does so, he probably likes you. Not just {like}, he {likes you very much}. (Understand the difference)

Not everyone will remember everything about you until you are very close to them. If he likes you, he remembers your birthday, your best friend’s name, your doggie’s favorite food, your favorite color and every single thing about you? Isn’t that cute girls? Well, I have the same characteristics. ? ahem ahem!


11. He Teases You

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

Teasing is a great sign that a guy is into you. A guy would usually never tease a girl if she isn’t one of his closest friends or if he doesn’t like you. It is normal for guys to tease girls just to grab their attention. Remember the kindergarten classes when guys used to pull your hairs? They did so, just to get your attention.

Teasing is just a grown-up way for boys to get the desired attention from the girls they like. Moreover, if he is trying to make you laugh now and then, he probably likes you. Guys get sarcastic while they are with their crushes, just to make sure that she enjoys his company and doesn’t get bored. All these are strong signs that a guy is interested in you.


12. He doesn’t check out other Girls

Signs That A Guy Likes You

It is natural for guys to check out girls every other moment, and if you are just his friends, he will have no problem telling you how HOT that girl was, who just passed by. You would have probably got used to this fact too. However, if he doesn’t check out any other girl except you, he is probably very much into you. Spend some time with him, and just see whether he mentions about any girl or not.

Guys check out a countless number of girls every day, but when he is into you, you are apparently the only girl for him in the entire universe. To draw a better conclusion, you might even ask him whether he is interested in anyone. His answer will tell you everything.


13. He helps you out

He helps you more than an average friend would do. He is ready to do your work even if it is the most tedious work of all time. Be it fixing your window or anything, he is always up to do your job. If he does so, he likes you more than a friend. After all, who will spend so much time for you if he doesn’t like you? Will anyone? Of course, NO!


14. He asks for few more minutes

How to know if a guy likes you

If you are just his “Friend”, he probably won’t have any problem saying BYE. But if he finds it hard to say bye at the end of the conversation, you are probably in his heart. Even an extra minute seems to be too much for a person who loves you from his heart, and so it is a clear sign that he likes you. You both can be talking the whole night on pointless topic, and it might seem like the best conversation ever. Making it short, if he wants to spend a bit more time with you, he is interested.


15. He Doesn’t Use His Phone When You Are Around

If he doesn’t check his phone while you are around it means that he is interested in you. He might be paying a lot more attention to you when you’re talking, just so that he can use it later on in the conversation.

It is just a small clue about how he feels when he is with you. However, remember that little details make up the bigger picture later. Pay attention to everything he does.


16. He Compliments You

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

How to tell if a guy likes you: If he frequently compliments your looks, clothes, personality or anything, it is an excellent sign that he likes you. It doesn’t matter what he compliments about, and it should be clear that if he compliments; he likes you. Period.


17. He Chats With You for Longer Periods

How To Tell If A Guy Likes YouIf he messages you as soon as you get online. It is a sign that a guy likes you. However, you can make it an obvious sign that he likes you; it can be just that he likes you as a good friend. To draw a far better conclusion, you need to check out how he chats with you and how long the conversation lasts. If he forgets the time while talking with you, he probably likes you very much.

Also, pay attention, whether he starts any flirty conversation or not. If he does, there cannot be any better hints that he likes you. Just stop hunting for clues and make a clear choice — do you like him or not? If you still want more clues, here we go, we still have few more left.


18. He looks at you, not your butt

There is a difference between love and lust, and if a guy likes you, he would just look at your face and nothing else. If he does look at something else, he is probably not that much interested in you. Proceed to the next clue to get a better answer.


19. He Introduces You To His Friends

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

Why will he introduce you to his friends when he doesn’t even like you? He won’t, right? If he does so, it apparently means that he likes you. Maybe his friends already know about it, but won’t tell you.

If he takes you out to parties where all his guy friends are present, it is a clear sign that he likes you more than a friend.


20. He Talks about his plans

First of all, guys don’t have enough plans? But if he discusses all of them with you… He likes you and sees a potential in you. Who knows, he might even see a future with you.


21. Just Ask him out

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

Enough is enough, right girls? Are you tired of wondering if he likes you or not? Well, honestly, I am tired of giving clues too… The best thing you could be doing is just go near him and ask him charmingly whether he is interested in you or not. Don’t ask him in a way that makes him nervous; he would probably shy away from saying anything if you did so.

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