How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You


How to tell if a guy likes you? Well, it is quite hard to tell if he is shy.

Whether you agree or not, every girl at one point in time thinks –  Does he like me or not? You want him, but you are just not aware if the same feeling resides in his heart. Well, honestly speaking on behalf of the male gender, it is not that hard to find out if a guy likes you more than a friend. His actions should be enough to tell you If he likes you or not.

Anyway, I know that you are already confused and wondering how you can be sure, right? Wonder no more. Here are 21 telltale signs that a guy (maybe shy guy) likes you. If you can relate to the points mentioned here, rejoice.

 

How to Tell If A Guy Likes You — Signs He Likes You

 

1. Endless Questions

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If a guy keeps asking you questions, questions, and more questions. He is probably into you. He wants to keep the conversation going on. Or maybe, he wants to know you from the core.

Moreover, see how he behaves, does he take a SPECIAL interest in talking to you or he acts just like a Normal friend? If you can relate yourself with the later, you will probably need some strong hints before concluding.

Further Reading: 20 Signs A Guy Likes You But is Trying Not to Show it

 

2. His Behavior

He acts differently when you are around. A boy will never do that until he likes you. If a guy wants you, he will try to act cool in front of you. He might try to be quieter when you are around or try to be cooler.

 

3. His Smile

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If he smiles at you a lot, it could be another positive sign that he likes you. Some guys tend to smile at every other thing, but that’s a different case.

For example, the guy is shy, but whenever he sees you, he smiles. He smiles not in a way to offend you but to give you a hint that he likes you.

Do pay close attention to his smile and see if he maintains eye contact;  it might be a great sign that suggests he is into you.

Further Reading: 21 Questions to Ask a Guy

 

4. He Ignores

Although this can get complicated, a lot of guys ignore the girl they like. He might be doing so, because for two reasons. He either wants to know if you care or it is because he gets too shy and nervous in front of you. No matter what’s the reason, but if he ignores you without reason, it might be possible that he’s into you (just a little bit).

On the other hand, it is even possible that he is entirely not into you. Maybe he ignores you because he doesn’t like certain characteristics of yours or something else. Take help from your friends, to find out what kind of feelings he has got for you.

 

5. He asked your number

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Until and unless he has a degree in flirting, it is a giant sign that the guy likes you. He asked your number = he wants you! No more questions. A guy won’t ask your number unless he has some important work with you or you can help him in any other manner.

However, this depends on the situation too. If a guy comes to you and asks for your number because that’s the only way he can contact you, that’s an entirely different thing. On the other hand, if he asks for you even if he can meet you daily, it is probably a sign that he likes you. Keep digging for more clues.

Further Reading: 48 Questions to Ask Your Guy Crush

 

6. He connects with you on Social Media

If he adds you on Facebook, Follows you on Instagram, there is a chance that he is interested in you. To conclude more, see what he does after getting your request accepted.

Does he keep it there or take the friendship to a whole new level? I mean, does he like all your posts, pics, and every other thing even though you feel that it makes no sense to him? Well, in that case, he is probably mad for you. Also, keep a check on his messages, if he initiates the conversation every time and keeps it going on, it is a very positive sign.

See point #1 for more explanation. (If you missed reading it)

 

7. Do you have a boyfriend?

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If he doesn’t ask you straight, it can be a slightly modified question like “are you seeing anyone” or “do you have a roommate?”. These small questions can help you get a bigger picture of his feelings for you.

Further Reading: Deep Questions to Ask A Guy

 

8. Accidental Touching

Does he touch you now and then? Well, not in the wrong manner but just decently and playfully? It could be one of the most significant clues. Guys love to touch their crushes, even in the slightest possible way. Be it a small game of thumb wrestling or something else that allows him to feel you. If he finds excuses to touch you, be ready, a proposal is on your way.

 

9. He gets Jealous

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He gets jealous when you talk to other guys. Of course, he will try to act as if nothing is wrong, but as soon as you turn your face around he will have questions like… “what the heck is that j*** doing here” or “is she taking an interest in that m****f****” popping in his head which can only be heard by his soul.

 

10. He remembers every single thing you told him

Seriously, guys aren’t that good at remembering details, but if he does so, he probably likes you. Not just {like}, he {likes you very much}. (Understand the difference)

Not everyone will remember everything about you until you are very close to them. If he likes you, he remembers your birthday, your best friend’s name, your doggie’s favorite food, your favorite color and every single thing about you?

 

11. He Teases You

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

Teasing is a great sign that a guy is into you. A guy would usually never tease a girl if she isn’t one of his closest friends or if he doesn’t like her. It is normal for guys to tease girls to grab their attention. Remember the kindergarten classes when guys used to pull your hairs? They did so, to get your attention.

Teasing is just a grown-up way for boys to get the desired attention from the girls they like. Moreover, if he is trying to make you laugh now and then, he probably likes you.

Further Reading: 7 Amazingly Friendly Ways to Friend Zone a Guy Who Likes You

 

12. He doesn’t check out other Girls

Guys check out a countless number of girls every day. If you are his friend, he will have no problem telling you how HOT the girl at the bus stop was. But if he likes you are going to be the only girl for him in the entire universe.

Spend some time with him, and see whether he mentions any girl or not.

To draw a better conclusion, you might even ask him whether he is interested in anyone. His answer will tell you everything.

 

13. He helps you out

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

He helps you more than a friend would. He is ready to do your work even if it is tedious and boring work. If he does so, he likes you more than a friend. After all, who will spend so much time for you if he doesn’t like you? Will anyone? Of course, NO!

 

14. He asks for a few more minutes

If you are just his “Friend,” he will have no problem saying BYE. But if he finds it hard to say bye at the end of the conversation, you are probably in his heart. Even an extra minute seems to be too much for a person who loves you from his heart, and so it is a clear sign that he likes you.

You both can be talking the whole night on a pointless topic, yet it might seem like the best conversation ever. Making it short, if he wants to spend a lot more time with you, he is interested.

 

15. He Doesn’t Use His Phone When You Are Around

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

If he doesn’t check his phone while you are around it means that he finds you appealing. He might be paying a lot more attention to you when you’re talking, just so that he can use the details later on in the conversation.

It is just a small clue about how he feels when he is with you. However, remember that little details make up the bigger picture later. Pay attention to everything he does.

 

16. He Compliments You

How to tell if a guy likes you: If he frequently compliments your looks, clothes, personality or anything, it is an excellent sign that he likes you. It doesn’t matter what the compliments are; if he compliments; he likes you. Period.

 

17. He Chats With You for Longer Periods

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

If he messages you as soon as you come online. It is a sign that a guy likes you. However, it can also be that he likes you as a good friend. To draw a far better conclusion, you need to check out how he chats with you and how long the conversation lasts.

See if he starts a flirty conversation or not. If he does, there cannot be any better hints that he likes you. Just stop hunting for clues and make a clear choice — do you like him or not?

 

18. He looks at you, not your butt

There is a difference between love and lust, and if a guy likes you, he would mostly look at your face.

 

19. He Introduces You To His Friends

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

Why will he introduce you to his friends when he doesn’t like you? He won’t, right? If he does so, it means you mean something to him. Maybe his friends already know that he likes you, but won’t tell you.

If he takes you out to parties where all his guy friends are present, it is a clear sign that he likes you more than a friend.

 

20. He Talks about his plans

First of all, guys don’t have plans. But if he discusses all of his future plans with you… He likes you and sees potential in you.

 

21. Just Ask him out

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Enough is enough, right? Are you tired of wondering if he likes you or not? Well, honestly, the best thing you could do is to ask him charmingly whether he is interested in you or not.

Don’t ask him in a way that makes him nervous; he would probably shy away from saying anything if you did so.

Hope you got your answer on how to tell if a guy likes you.


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