You cannot have what you want and need at any time, and you need to let your partner have their own desires and goals … This is the only real way to achieve a healthy relationship.
There are certain stages that you have to go through in a relationship as things that you must accept to settle down safely with your loving partner.
Today, it is not easy to find and retain someone with whom you can stay in touch. Be careful. Therefore, these are ten biggest milestones you need to reach before you settle down.
Misunderstanding is inevitable
And is constantly happening. If you understand your partner’s words in your own way, and then find out that it all meant something else entirely, do not punish him/her. Leave everything! Backfiring on it will only spoil the relationship and create future problems in communication. Sometimes, if what you say or do will be understood in the wrong way, you will become frustrated by what your partner did not understand. Step back a bit and understand that this is not so important. Misunderstandings are becoming a problem when you allow them to grow. Rest assured and forgive misunderstanding.
Learn to trust
How can you share your life with a person who you think is doing something different whenever you turn? If you do not trust your partner on issues of loyalty, honesty, or anything else, it means that you are not in a good relationship. The best relationships start from the trust, and even if problems sprang up (and always will!), the confidence would be high enough to keep you together.
Further Reading: 10 Long-Term Relationship Hacks That Work Like A Charm
Take a rest from each other
Of course that those who are in love always wants to be together – to spend the night and day together. But when will you then deal with other things? When you go to different workplaces or in different schools, it is happening to you some things that you will be able to talk later. When you go out with your friends and your partner spend time with his own, you have time for yourself, and you will return to each other refreshed. In this
In this way, you will have the opportunity to feel that you miss one another, and it will teach you about the value of your relationship. When you miss someone extremely, and fact that you can see him after that time it will make you happy and secure in the relationship.
Further Reading: 10 Questions to Ask a Girl You Are in Love With
Encouraging growth and change
In a healthy relationship, both partners need to grow and develop. You only have one life, and that’s why you should take full advantage of him! If you want to quit your job and go back to school, your partner should support this. If you want to try something new or return to the old, you should have support for it by your relationship partner. In the same way, you too should be supportive in such situations. Encourage your partner to explore hobbies and interests and to meet new people. If you like that your partner remains the same as it is, you will have a very boring life together.
Compromise is not a defeat
Compromises do not mean that you have surrendered or have lost the battle. The reality is the opposite. Do you know how hard it is to make compromises? You want to get something on your way because that sounds right and makes sense to you. Also thoughts your partner too. Try to watch the arguments as a good diplomat. What is more logical? If your partner is right, do not be afraid to say so. Accept his way, or both modify half of your opinions. What is important is not that everything is the way you want, but to save relationships that help you grow. Compromises will definitely assist you.
Admit your weaknesses
Your partner does not expect you to be a superhero, and I hope you also do not expect that from him. We are all people who have flaws. Showing them is okay. In fact, to have a stable and serious relationship, your weak sides should be known. Your partner will also be attentive to things that are a problem for you and will support you where you need help.
Further Reading: 7 ‘Weaknesses’ That Actually Benefit You
Some things you will be able only to accept, but not to correct
Everyone has an excessive burden. You have. Your partner has it. Is it possible to go back in time and delete it? No one can! You need to learn to live with it. Some things are easier to accept than others, but the reality is that sometimes the current situation cannot be corrected. You cannot make problems disappear. It should be free to go on. Otherwise, your relationship will suffer because of that.
Forgive quickly and sincerely
When you have a discussion, do not worry about who won and who lost. Learn from conflict – on what is said and how it is resolved. When you learn something from the discussions, you can use it to avoid problems in the future. Forgive your partner an excuse to yourself. The conflict is over; you survived it, and you left it in the past. Never be resentful because the resentment will grow until you wish to leave him.
Further Reading: Forgive and Forget? F*ck that!
Do not expect anything
Do not expect your partner to read your mind, and brings you breakfast in bed or doing dishes. That will not happen. It is pointless to expect something if you did not talk about that. Communicate! Be sure your partner knows what are you expecting from the relationship, as well as your opinions about many other problems. This will help your partner to be more careful about you, but still, do not expect anything.
Your partner is not your mother
Do you think that if your partner loves you unconditionally must suffer all your moods, laziness or childish behavior? No. Many people enter into partnerships to replace the role that in their lives represent parents, who will care for them more than they should. But nothing kills romance as fast as the expectations of the partners to care about them. Your partner deserves to be in a relationship with an adult, emotionally mature person, who respects the other side and can provide support in crucial moments. Because less than that is the path to decay…