Gambling is the second name of marriage in my view. You never know what will happen next as you are going to marry a freaking stranger. Even in love marriages partner may promise so many things before the marriage. But once married, you will see the real face of your partner. Our generation is scared of marriage because our generation is afraid of responsibilities. If you are going to meet your partner for the first time they will not unmask their original face. So be careful in unmasking their mask and please have a look at these 6 things before you marry your partner.
See Your Partner Relation With Her/His Parent
Your partner has spent nearly 21 years with her/his parent’s. Just check your partner relation with their own parent’s if they lie to their own parents than they surely will lie to you. You have only known your partner for a 2-3 year and her relationship with their parents is of 21 years if she can lie to them how can your partner not lie to you.
So the first thing you can do is to check partner relation with her/his parent’s.
Interact With The Colleagues Of Your Partner
Admit this your friend knows you better than your parent’s. Even all your wildest secrets are generally known by your friends not even by your parent’s. So before you marry, try to interact with your partner friends as much as you can. Interacting with the friends of your partner may uncover the real mask of your partner face.
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You Are Enjoying The Company Of Your Partner
During engagement see if you are enjoying their company? Ask yourself? Do you think you can tolerate their flaws? Do you really think you can enjoy your whole life with them? Marriage is only meant to enjoy if you are not enjoying their company then maybe they aren’t the one.
See If Your Habits Are Matching
Suppose if your partner enjoys animated movies and you enjoy romantic movies. You like to listen to rap music and your partner likes to listen to pop music. If your habits are not matching then your life becomes alone and dark. Your habits need to match if you want to have a perfect relationship.
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There has to be the mutual understanding in maintaining a proper relationship. Mutual understanding is the main backbone of every happy relationship. Through mutual understanding, sincerity and goodwill, and with great wisdom and broad views, the leader on both sides should jointly initiate the new opportunity for peace, stability, cooperation and mutual benefit.
A relationship without trust is like a car without gas, you can stay in it all you want, but it won’t go anywhere. The best proof of love is trust. Trust is the human relationship what faith is to gospel living. It is the beginning place, the foundation upon which more can be built. Where trust is, Love can flourish.