When tough time surrounds you, you are like a thirsty crow looking for the water.
You desperately want to get rid of problems, defeat, and depression.
You keep trying hard, you read books, you try to remain positive but this hard time is not leaving you.
What can you do now?
The answer is simple. You have to accept the problem is yours, and no one else can solve this but you. Like a thirsty crow who solved his problem by putting Peebles in the container. Remind yourself that it’s okay to be sad or depressed, honor and respect that feeling.
This feeling which you perceive as weakness or instability is not a weakness.
I’m not telling you to remain depressed always; I’m just telling you that you are not the only one in this world facing this problem.
It’s Okay To Feel Weak
Your subconscious mind will tell you, you are never going to make this out, you will never get out of this debt & you will never succeed.
Learn to respect these thoughts but don’t allow these thoughts to get inside your head.
Weeping may endure till the night, but joy will come in the morning.
Keep going forward and always remember it’s okay to feel weak. You are not abnormal you are a normal person.
It’s Okay To Feel Lonely
Loneliness is sadness because one has no friends or companions.
It is very hazardous to the body, and I won’t disagree with you, my dear friend.
But you know one thing it’s okay to be lonely.
You have your body and soul with you right now. You need yourself more than you need anyone.
Upgrade yourself. Love yourself. Motivate yourself.
Let your soul discover the power it has to build a masterpiece. That masterpiece is you.
Further Reading: 25 Things To Do When You Feel Alone and Lonely
It’s Okay To Cry If You Want To
Crying is not a sign of weakness, but it’s the sign, feeling you have for the opposite person was genuine.
It’s okay to cry to let your emotions out.
Change the precipitation of your mind that you will consider as weak if you let tears drop on your cheeks. Crying is more than okay. You are not feeble and fragile if you cry.
Emotional tears have special health benefits. Biochemist and “tear expert” Dr. William Frey at the Ramsey Medical Center in Minneapolis discovered that reflex tears are 98% water, whereas emotional tears also contain stress hormones which get excreted from the body through crying. (Psychology Today)
Further Reading: 7 Amazing Benefits of Crying (Why It’s Okay To Cry)
It’s Okay If You Are Depressed
No one likes to be in a depression, yet half of the world is depressed.
So what’s the solution?
Firstly, always remember it’s okay if you are depressed. Depression is not a disease so don’t worry; you are a healthy person even if you don’t feel that way.
When ever you feel depressed talk to someone you trust and share your problems with them. And remember it’s okay.
Further Reading: 5 Ways Your “Tough Times” Will Help You
It’s Okay If Your Love Was Not Reciprocated
Unrequited love is very dangerous for anyone in this world.
I love her but she doesn’t love me back it hurts me so much.
I know it hurts you, but if you keep sticking on this, you are not allowing someone new to come in your life.
Understand this thing very clearly if you love someone it’s not necessary that they will love you back. It’s okay to feel that pain but move on.
We always fall for the wrong person first then only we can fall for the right person. Happy endings do exist you will find yours too.
It’s Okay If You Are Not Getting Good Breaks
One of your friends bought a car; one friend is going to Miami & one friend has got his dream job. And you on the other hand just scrolling newsfeed on Facebook. It’s a human nature to get envy in this kind of state. But Success is meant to celebrate not to make anyone envy.
You will find your good breaks too they are on your way just wait patiently.
Till then celebrate the victory of your friends and not get jealous of their success.
Further Reading: 10 Times You Should Handle Jealousy Gracefully
Guys your life is worthy. You may be going through tough times but it will not last forever. So don’t worry my friend silver lining is coming.