The best decision that you will ever make is to stop wanting the love of someone who does not love you. – Najwa Zebian
Just sit around for a minute and take a deep breath and calculate how much time you are wasting on your crush and how much effort you are putting in. Why the hell are you wasting time on someone who will never be the part of your life?
She has friend zoned you, and now that’s enough. Move on. There is plenty of fish in the sea. Calculate the amount of time, hope, and will that you put for your girl. Now imagine what you could have achieved if you saved all that time and put all that hope and will to work on yourself.
Do you know why most girls friend zone guys? they do it for emotional support. Whenever they have problems, they need help, they need inspiration, they need advice, they will call you. And then you put all of your work aside invest all of your time in motivating her and reassuring her that she is okay.
And when she is okay, she goes to her boyfriend. The moment she needs outing she goes to her boyfriend. The moment she needs sex she goes to her boyfriend. Her boyfriend will always come first no matter what happens. But the moment when she is depressed had a fight with her boyfriend or need a help she thinks of you.
You are just wasting all of your positive energy in motivating someone else to become successful.
Why and for what reason you are doing this shit?
She is using you for your emotional support; she doesn’t even think about you when she doesn’t need you. I know some guys who are taking some extreme pain for a girl in the hope that one day she will fall in love with them. When her boyfriend is busy, she will text you for time pass. And half of our nation guy’s are willing to become a time pass for a girl.
They do this for pleasure that they are chatting with the girl and but what they get in the end. Nothing.
Guys, is this our beautiful life? Is this what we are narrowed to these days? We are wasting our entire youth days just to win the heart of a Girl. Why are you wasting your life chasing girls? Just concentrate on your life and your self-development. In our teens, we are infatuated, and it’s not true love, so forget love if you are in your teenage, you better concentrate on your future.
Still thinking about the girl who dumped you a year ago? She moved on, accept it. Most girls can’t even stop scooty without putting their leg on the floor. Is that the girl that will decide your future? Surely not.
Most girls run for the money, trust me, true love doesn’t exist, its only money.
All the lovers out there you guys waste thousand of money on your girl taking her to dinner buying her gifts or even recharging her phone. When was the last time you took your mom to the dinner, bought her gift or even recharged phone? Silence huh.
Stop chasing girls, and Bro’s don’t you ever beg for that girl after reading this article; no more bullshit.
Just log into matrimony sites and just see salary expectation of the prettiest girls out there. They don’t even give a damn about your looks like teenage girls do. Girls are attracted to successful people, and that’s not a mystery.
So, become successful, put your time on self-development and make success your obsession and you will get the girl of your dreams.