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120 Best Pick-Up Lines to Use on Dating Apps, Text, or IRL

Flirting is an art form—and whether you’re a master of witty banter or just dipping your toes into the dating pool, a smooth pick-up line can be your golden ticket to getting the conversation started. In an age where dating apps rule, texting reigns, and IRL meet-cutes still spark magic, having the right opener is key. It’s not just about being clever—it’s about making someone smile, maybe laugh, and definitely feel intrigued enough to reply.

So whether you’re sliding into DMs, making eye contact across the room, or just trying to impress your crush with a well-timed pun, we’ve got your back.

Here are 120 smooth pick-up lines—divided into playful categories—to help you break the ice, warm some hearts, and maybe even score that second message or date. 💘

Dating App Openers (Perfect for Tinder, Bumble, Hinge)

Swipe right on these openers—they’re made to stand out from the “Hey” crowd.

  • Is your name Wi-Fi? Because I’m feeling a strong connection.
  • I was going to use a clever line, but your smile distracted me.
  • I just read your profile three times trying to come up with something smooth. This is the best I’ve got: Hi 😅
  • Are you an interior designer? Because you just made my heart do a total makeover.
  • I matched with you for your dog, but I stayed for your bio.
  • Can we skip the small talk and jump to planning our couple Halloween costume?
  • You seem like the type who has great taste in coffee and even better taste in people.
  • Are you my type? I don’t know, but my thumbs swiped right before I could think.
  • You + Me = Let’s find out.
  • Want to make our friends jealous by saying, “We met on an app but still fell in love”?

Over Text Lines (Cute, Casual)

Flirty messages for when you’re texting your crush late at night or mid-scroll at work.

  • Just thought you should know, you’ve been running through my mind like a TikTok sound all day.
  • If I were to rearrange the alphabet, I’d put U and I texting nonstop.
  • You busy? Because I just found a meme that perfectly describes us (even if “us” isn’t official yet).
  • You remind me of my favorite song—can’t get you out of my head 🎶
  • Just checking in to see if your smile is still as contagious as yesterday.
  • Do you believe in love at first text, or should I send another one?
  • On a scale from 1 to 10, you’re a 13 and my Wi-Fi signal when you’re around.
  • Warning: I flirt by sending GIFs. And I’ve got a good one coming…
  • What’s something cute we could do together that doesn’t involve me pretending not to like you?
  • I had a clever line, but then your name popped up and I forgot everything.

IRL Flirty Lines (For When You Actually See Someone Across the Room)

Nothing beats the classic “saw you from across the room” scenario.

  • Is this seat taken? Because it’s been waiting for someone as gorgeous as you.
  • I must be lost—because heaven is definitely not supposed to be at this bar.
  • Do you believe in fate, or should I come introduce myself?
  • You just turned my regular Tuesday into something cinematic.
  • I don’t usually walk up to strangers, but you don’t look like a stranger—I feel like I’ve seen you in my dreams.
  • You make it hard to focus on anything else in this room.
  • I was going to play it cool, but then you walked in and ruined all my plans.
  • If I spill my drink, will that give me an excuse to keep talking to you?
  • I’m not a photographer, but I can picture us together—right here, right now.
  • Be honest: how many people have tripped over their words trying to flirt with you tonight?

Cheesy But Charming

Yes, they’re a little cringe. That’s the point. Bonus: they actually work if you own it.

  • Are you French? Because Eiffel for you.
  • Do you have a name, or can I call you mine?
  • Is your dad a boxer? Because dang, you’re a knockout.
  • You must be made of copper and tellurium because you’re Cu-Te.
  • Did it hurt when you fell… out of the dating app and into my heart?
  • Are you a magician? Because whenever I look at you, everyone else disappears.
  • You must be a time traveler—because I can see you in my future.
  • Do you have a map? I just got lost in your eyes.
  • Are you a loan from the bank? Because you’ve got my interest.
  • I’m not a weatherman, but you can expect a few flirty storms in your forecast.

Bold & Direct (Confidence is Key)

Flirting 101: Own it. These lines don’t play games—they shoot their shot.

  • I like your vibe. Want to skip the small talk and grab coffee?
  • I know this is forward, but I’d regret not saying hi to someone like you.
  • I won’t lie—I’m kind of here for you.
  • You’ve got that energy I’ve been looking for.
  • I’m usually shy, but you made me forget that.
  • Can I be honest? You’re exactly my type.
  • What’s a charming person like you doing not texting me yet?
  • I’m not great at flirting, but you make me want to learn.
  • Can I steal a moment of your time? And maybe your heart while I’m at it?
  • We could keep pretending this isn’t chemistry—or we could get a drink and find out.

Nerdy But Smooth (For the Brainy Babes and Clever Cuties)

Because intelligence is hot—and so are references to space, science, and fandoms.

  • Are you made of dark matter? Because you’re indescribable and everywhere in my universe.
  • Do you like Star Wars? Because Yoda one for me.
  • If I were a function, you’d be the limit I approach but never reach—because I can’t get enough of you.
  • I must be a library book, because I’m checking you out and hoping for a long overdue connection.
  • Are you an equation? Because every time I solve for X, it leads back to you.
  • You must be a coding error—because everything crashed when I saw you.
  • Are you a black hole? Because you just pulled me in.
  • I like my partners like I like my periodic table—full of chemistry.
  • Is your name Google? Because you have everything I’ve been searching for.
  • You and I must be electrons—because the attraction is electric.

Flirting isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present, playful, and just the right amount of bold. Whether you’re sparking a chat in the DMs or dropping a line at the bar, the goal isn’t to win someone over with words alone—it’s to start a spark, share a smile, and maybe write the first line of something new.

So go ahead—pick your favorite, own it, and have fun with it. Because the best pick-up line? It’s the one that gets you talking.

Now go melt hearts and break the ice like the charming legend you are. 😉