Have you found yourself falling for a complex Gemini woman? She’s the intellectual chatterbox who can adapt to any situation she’s put in. Born between May 21st and June 20th, she’s full of Mercurial energy that makes her the messenger of the gods. In this article, we discuss the fascinating mind of a Gemini woman and how to wrap her up in conversation and make her yours.
In astrology, our Sun sign is the placement we all know the best; it’s our personality, but it’s only the tip of the iceberg of yourself. Astrology comes with a whole chart based on the placement of the planets when and where you were born. It shows how the different planets and their placements of them in the sky will and can affect you in life. Someone’s Sun sign can show a good amount, not everyone under the same Sun sign is the same but, they share the same base that unites them all.
The sign of Gemini is ruled by the planet Mercury, it’s the planet of communication, intelligence, the mind, and logic. In Greek mythology, the god Hermes rules this planet and he was the god of translators and interpreters. He’s a clever man who also ruled wealth, good fortune, and thievery. The influence of this gives Gemini woman a quick cleverness but a nervous temperament. Gemini is represented by the twins which are associated with duality, communication, versatility, and humanism. Symbolically, this speaks of wisdom, learning, and the powers of the mind. As a Gemini woman, you could find luck with the numbers 5 and 9 and your birthstone of agate. Agate will protect you from deception and falsehood, and it brings eloquence, especially with proclamations of love.
Now, it’s time to take a deeper look at the Gemini woman and do our best to understand her since she’s always changing.
The Gemini Woman’s Personality
The Gemini woman is frequently coined as two-faced, but she’s just an adaptable person. She is a mutable sign so she can easily change and read people very well; she matches your energy. But, she can be clever and only show parts of herself that she wants to, communicating only what she wants to. Yet, she is all about self-expression and might impose her own views on others since she’s all about teaching. She’s quick in thoughts and action, and skilled with handling other people—she’s an accumulation of humanity, she holds qualities that are inherently human.
She’s a curious girl, she’s the actor on the stage of the world and wants to be in whatever she can. Gemini is going to do anything and whatever she wants, playing all the parts in the show of life. She wants multiple hobbies, interests, jobs, and lovers; she wants more than one of anything. She could be a little restless and Gemini and Mercury enjoy travel, so she might go off for a new experience or idea to expand her mind—she needs a change of scenery every once in a while. But, this could lead her to put her energy into many different topics and projects instead of just putting all her smarts into one thing. She is always asking for new things and trying to collect information about everything like she’s a sponge.
She loves to talk to people and is a charmer at it too—her cleverness plays a part here. She’s great at persuasion and could justify anything she needs to. She is great at getting enthusiasm and loyalty from people, and people find it easy to open up to her. She has opinions about everything, knows little about everything, and values her intellectual independence. She is phenomenal with writing, speaking, and expressing herself. She could be a famous writer or performer if she really wanted to.
She’s a witty and amusing girl, she’s a wonderful friend and is always ready to give advice—she’s a great teacher. She is always surrounded by her friends and admirers, she’s a fun person to be around and people flock to her extroverted personality. But, she’s an impatient woman, especially with people who aren’t as quick as she is. She doesn’t enjoy being swept away in darkness or other people’s problems that could mess with her freedom; yes, she’ll be there for you, but not fall with you. She always had a cheerful face, never wanting anything to rain on her parade and mess with her excitement.
She’s not for routine very much and is the epitome of change. She values freedom and not being held down by anything. The fun for her is the adventure and making the journey to wherever she wishes to go. But, this gives her the strength of being open-minded and imaginative. She is open to seeing different point-of-views and is ready to learn anything—she’s an interesting woman.
The Gemini Woman in Love, Dating and Sex
In astrology, everyone has a Venus sign which shows what sign was in Venus at the time of your birth. Venus is the sign of love, beauty, money, and who/what you’re attracted to. But, since not everyone knows their Venus sign, we can still get an idea of what you’re like in a relationship based on your Sun sign personality.
You have to connect to her mind before you do physically or emotionally. She needs the conversation and the chance to try and understand you. She will cast a spell on you with her uniqueness, all the information she is going to share will enthrall you. She’s a casual lover and even in a deep connection there is still an element of friendship; a friendly feeling mixed with passion. She is fascinating and will be hard for you to figure out, she’s complex and always changing and that’s all you need to know to understand her.
She wants to feel like the most important girl in the world, she wants to be cared for and coddled but needs to be stimulated mentally as well. She is a high-spirited girl, always ready for adventure and excitement so don’t be alarmed by her changing ways—she can get bored quite easily. She needs an exciting man, she dislikes dullness and won’t waste her time on that. If she finds the zest gone in the relationship or causal love affair, she will look for a way out; she’s not the kind to look for the love once it has been lost. She might hold onto bad experiences with love from her past which could cause her to be non-committal.
She’s all about the seduction, but is really just trying to figure out if you’re worth her time; her desire for you is all mental at first. But in love, she’s a tender woman and always ready to try something new, her curiosity hits hard in the bedroom as well. She might be more mentally responsive in the bedroom instead of physically—she likes communication in the bedroom as well. Although, in astrology, someone’s Mars sign rules what they like in the bedroom, so what she likes that relates to her personality could be completely different sexually.
She could find it hard to feel satisfied by one man for she’s a curious girl. She might be too demanding for one man and her ever-changing nature makes her need multiple lovers to fulfill that. She needs, mental, emotional, and sexual stimulation and if you want her, you need to check all those boxes. She needs a man who can interest her mentally and sexually, and if you can do that she is the most faithful lover. She shows her truest self in love and could become quite possessive and jealous.
Gemini Woman Good Traits / Bad Traits
The Gemini Woman’s Likes and Dislikes
She won’t waste her time on you, so it’s best to be well-equipped with some of these things.
The things she values most in a partner:
- High spirit, someone who is fun.
- Someone who gives her freedom.
- Someone honest and an open communicator.
- Someone witty, with a great sense of humor.
- Someone she can spend quality time with to understand.
- Someone who puts in time and energy.
The things she’d find to be a dealbreaker:
- Someone who is rude, bossy, or loud.
- Someone who is a recluse or isn’t super social.
- You can’t be boring.
- Someone who is secretive (like Scorpio).
- A close-minded person, someone conventional (like Capricorn).
- Someone who doesn’t value new experiences
Gemini Woman’s Best & Worst Match
In astrology, compatibility comes down to other aspects, including other signs in someone’s chart. But, personality-wise you can find someone who works well with you and works in a similar vein. Gemini’s are all about communication and intellectual thoughts along with going off and seeing the world.
When is a Gemini Woman Done with You?
When it gets boring she will quite literally escape. She won’t converse with you anymore and could get very sarcastic. She’ll be distant and off on another adventure, practically removing herself from your life. She will begin to have an “I don’t care” attitude with you and will neglect the mundane daily activities, and you’ll be one of them. Along with her lack of communication with you, she’ll begin avoiding you and won’t even confront you —her silence is enough.
How to Attract a Gemini Woman?
Meet her interests and let her talk about them. She will find it enduring if you know a lot about one thing. She enjoys books, music, art, politics, and nearly everything else so start up a conversation on anything and she’ll light up. She is impressed by open-minded people who march to their own drum, she finds this interesting. She’s a witty girl, but don’t match her on unless you can bite back. She loves to gossip just as much as she loves an intellectual conversation—she likes talking about celebrities. It might be hard to gain her trust, so don’t give her a reason to suspect you’re playing a game with her. Don’t forget to make her laugh.
What are a Gemini Woman’s Negative Traits?
Her lack of perseverance and constant desire for change, also makes her inconsistent. She can be a little superficial and be impressed by intellectual people more than the “average” person. She hates routine and she could be hard to pin down due to her need for freedom. She could be fickle, distant, and have an ever-changing personality; she gets bored very easily. She might have trouble opening up as well, she is a logical person most of the time so her emotions might be a place she ignored.
5 Gift ideas for a Gemini Woman
- A spur of the moment trip.
- She likes bracelets and rings.
- Puzzles or word games or even a dictionary.
- A book with new places to travel to.
- Anything deemed unique or interesting, possible something you found at vintage shops that could make her laugh.
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