The pair is as awkward and odd as it can get. It’s a constant guessing game when these two meet up in friendship, marriage, sex, and emotions.
Let’s break it down to their general core traits.
Scorpio belongs to the water family triad. They are as complex as it gets, with emotional intensity boiling below, undetected until it’s too late and the deluge of hot lava has wiped away life in its midst. Their fixed approach makes them an immovable force. They stick to what they know; this includes outlook, friends, and partnerships. They may have invented the concept and coined the term commitment. Scorpios look to mate for life.
Their “slight” case of obsessive behaviour means if you are the object of a Scorpio’s affection, the focus is 100% on you, as they are loyal to a fault.
A quality that comes from their passionate nature, a Scorpio’s intensity oozes out of them. They are co-ruled by Pluto and Mars, characterizing their secretive nature and giving them ultimate power of regeneration and transformation — in other words, the sign is constantly in crisis mode. But, if you catch them on a good day, a good transiting year, and they’ve allowed you in their circle, you have a devoted friend or a partner for life who will take a bullet for you while listening quietly and intently to every bit of the innards you divulge. They will protect you like the warrior that they are.
Gemini belongs to the air triad family. Air is light; it flows. It disappears but can reappear through the movement of leaves, fire, and water. Like fellow air Libra and Aquarius, Geminis are great communicators and love to analyze, digest, and share bits of data with others. They are social signs, easily relating to others.
The outside world stimulates them, and just as they reappear and exist in other elements, Geminis require others to bounce off their ideas and express their true nature. Adaptable and flexible, they see things from an objective lens, are not known to take things too seriously, and will likely forget a slight done to them.
Gemini and Scorpio Friendship
Camaraderie is based on mutual trust. To a Scorpio, there is nothing more important than the quality of trust in the small number of people they invite into their circle. But even then, there is a life-long vetting process when you’re friends with a Scorpio. That is unless you’ve saved them from a near-death experience—then again, they may choose the afterlife just so you have nothing over them. Yes, this is how extreme a Scorpio can be. They ride on suspicion; the sleuth of the zodiac likes to be one step ahead and rarely completely surrenders trust.
When the Gemini comes sweeping in, talking themselves silly, attempting to charm Scorpio, who has stopped them in their tracks, the Scorpio flex’s its tail, ready for any suspicious moves from this foreign energy. The Gemini doesn’t mind; a bit intrigued by the penetrative stare of the Scorpio, they carry on in the idle talk.
In a nutshell, it can be a one-sided beginning of a friendship. The Scorpio does all the listening and scrutinizing, and the Gemini becomes the ticker, endlessly sharing the latest updates. Though not impossible, it will be hard to cement a friendship. Scorpios rarely care to engage with people they tend to regard as flakey, superficial, and who delight in small talk.
Based on light touches of humour and notes of cute banter as the ideal preface in a friendship, a Gemini may not have the patience for the Scorpio definition of one. One of the only things that can solidify a friendship between these two signs is their mutual affinity for quenching their curious thirst for life. However, since Scorpio can take a whole lifetime to share their thoughts or open up in general, Gemini may have already lost the little patience they possess and fluttered off to the next flower.
Gemini and Scorpio Marriage
The chemistry sparks Gemini’s curiosity about the Scorpio’s mystery. The setting starts as a thriller novel unravelling with clues. Gemini eats up every bit of each page. His protagonist’s intense nature to resist keeps the Gemini thirsting for the next chapter’s reveal. With Scorpio’s capacity to leave people in the dark, especially those that can trigger their vulnerability, the restless Gemini curiosity can wane. The plot takes too long to arrive. The Twins skip the pages with all the heavy, long-winded descriptive emotions and lump them into the typical tropes they’ve read before. The Gemini realizes their Scorpio protagonist is a creature of habit, viewing the melodrama as an intense climactic scene but the following series of theatrics as anti-climatic.
The fiery and dominant Scorpio can take over the intimate settings— heavy emotions draining all the fun in their living situation. In efforts for their rare efforts made to commit, a Gemini will try to entertain, make light of any situation, and keep the floor open for discussion. Indeed reasonable attempts, but may fall short for the emotionally driven, erratic Scorpio.
The Scorpio desires a partner that will understand them at a deeply emotional level. A Gemini’s efforts may start to drown in these foreign waters, elements that weigh down its feathered demeanour. Unable to be contained or measured, Gemini’s fresh air may be too shapeless and untrusting for the Scorpio.
Gemini and Scorpio Sex
Scorpios are infamous for their high sexual drive. But, they are also equally famous for their resisting nature. Consider them a monk working at a brothel who can resist temptation out of sheer principles. They simply know what’s for good them. They hold out for those worthy of their sacred vessel. Rarely looking for a one-night romp, a Scorpio looks to merge with another during the blissful act. A challenging act to fill for the Gemini.
For argument’s sake, let’s say the two miraculously gel and find themselves in bed. The Gemini peaks in curiosity from the nuanced intensity. A mysterious creature is luring them into the promised land. Aroused from the build-up of suspense, the act is as expected, with Gemini’s nerves quaking in bliss. But this is where the curiosity ends. Likely out of fear, they may not be interested in pursuing the depths of the Scorpio soul and where it leads. They sense the brooding darkness, scenes they’ve read in whodunnit novels with a demised ending.
Depending on how much time the Scorpio invested, the deed can leave a sore spot on them, or they will wash their hands of it and be grateful the drought has ended.
Gemini and Scorpio Emotions
Their most challenging connection. Scorpio has too much of it. In contrast, Gemini is perfectly content never having any.
A Gemini can feel stranded when the Scorpio’s fierce, dramatic emotions flare up. During a storm in the middle of Scorpio’s emotional seas, which threatens to capsize the vessel and overthrow everything in their lives, Gemini holds on for dear life. Unable to navigate the foreign element of water, it prays to the gods to find safety (abandoning ship intact). In the meantime, the Scorpio will be wondering why their Gemini person isn’t helping to steer the sails in alternate directions.
In helpful response, a Gemini will attempt to locate a map, hoping to chart a route towards more favourable conditions and find land for them to dock. Its strategies and light-heartedness find them on solid footing again until Gemini realizes they’ve settled on an active volcano that threatens to erupt indefinitely. The resourceful Gemini cleverly finds ways to fly them out of danger, only to discover another menacing storm brews. Now, back in choppy seas, Gemini has lost its nerves. Filled with anxiety, it takes cover until the sky has cleared.
No matter how much they find themselves in these seas—which can also be calm at times, a Gemini may never fully become comfortable in the foreign element. And not without a lack of trying, eventually, a Gemini will look for an emergency raft and paddle off on its own.
Gemini and Scorpio Compatibility Percentage
Trust Meter — 45%. The two do not have the same values and approaches to life.
Emotions Meter —45%. They are too different in levels of expression.
Intellect Meter — 80%. They are both curious and love to soak up information.
Values Meter — 60%. Their values are generally at odds, but what gives them a pass is they are both great listeners and equally helpful.
Sex Meter — 50%. Their mutual intrigue of the other will get them to round one. Realizing how different they are, there won’t be a second round.
Activity Meter — 60%. A low rating as Gemini is constantly looking for excitement, and the Scorpio can be pleased to have a staycation.
What is the worst type of relationship between a Gemini and Scorpio?
A mother and child relationship. A Scorpio is the smothering, overprotective, she-lion type of mother. Gemini’s are curious and will leave the nest as early as possible to go and experience life.
Who benefits more in a relationship?
The Gemini. They have a person who will protect and care for them for life.
Can a Gemini and Scorpio be soulmates?
If they teleported into another realm, a different galaxy where their souls actually mesh, then yes.
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