Libra is the only air sign who shares a deep love of beauty, the arts, sensuality, frequent romantic gestures, and feminine energy. In this respect, both signs steer towards harmony and a peaceful life, and this one common goal can help them overcome any tricky times.. There are some major distortions they will need to be aware of and work through if they wish to stand the tests of time.
They both believe in timeless, eternal, and fairytale love! So mysticism and spirituality are always good points to seek unification.
Cancer x Libra – Romance and Sexual Chemistry
As much as I would love to say this is a positive love match, sex and emotions wise; it isn´t. There are some highlights, and with compromise and sacrifice they can have a happy long-term relationship. Firstly, the negatives… Cancer is an emotional water sign, Libra is an analytical and logical air one. There is a major clash here. Libra, for example, approaches sex and intimacy in a very cerebral, analytical, and thinking things through way; Cancer feels their way into people, places, and situations, also navigating the realm of love and sex through emotional intelligence and instincts.
As a very primal sign, which is clear through looking at their planetary ruler, the Moon- the planet of instincts, the imagination, and the subconscious mind; Cancer is deeply connected to their body. The feel, sense, use subtle and psychic gifts of perception & relating, and believe ´intimacy´ equates to lots and lots of hugs, kisses, body rubs (romantic/non-sexual and sexual!), physical touches & displays of affection, and restful moments of simply being and sharing.
Libra sees these as alien most of the time. They “think” their way into intimacy and sexual union, and can thus come across as cold and detached- and even robotic- to sensual and super instinctive Cancer. Water is deep while air is superficial. Water seeks to merge, mesh, and unify whilst air seeks connection through intellectual and psychological means.
The saving grace of the Cancer-Libra sexual compatability is in Venus´ influence. Venus rules Libra, making Libra the most romantic, sensual, feminine, and gentle of all the air signs. This doesn’t mean they’re perfect, at least not for a Cancer in terms of synergy, but they are able to tune into their emotions and the subtle and ethereal realms for some true moments of intimacy and bonding. Libras are lovers at heart, not fighters, therefore there is a common goal here. Both partners want love and harmony, and if they can sort out their differences they can find true harmony and lasting bliss. Sexually, to get there they need to take time to understand each other´s bodies and wants, needs and desires, and what types of sacrifces they will have to make for longevity.
Cancer x Libra – Family and Marriage
As Libra is innately aligned with the 7th house in astrology; personal relationships, partnerships, marriage… There are some positive aspects here. Cancer is of course ruled by the 4th house of home, the family, roots and security, the mother, and female energy- they have a few key core values when it comes to marriage and family! Both individuals dream of a lasting monogamous relationship, marriage and a happy home-life too. They both put value on beauty, aesthetics, material comforts, warmth within and around, and peace and compromise. A shared love of love itself and luxury, so both spiritual/sentimental and material needs, can help them remember their unity and similarities in times of difficulty, and strengthen their romantic bond in the long run.
Cancer is very feminine in nature and embodies the qualities of yin energy; passivity, femininity, subtlety, astral and spiritual wisdom and knowledge, self-awareness, reflection, introversion, and magnetism. Libra, despite being ruled by the planet of love and female sexuality (Venus), is masculine by nature. Yang qualities are prevalent- dominance, action, assertiveness, masculinity, willpower, and a more direct and logical approach to self & others. Ultimately, this means Libra will try to dominate Cancer, even if mentally and intellectually. This can wind the sensitive Crab up, so it’s up to Libra to recognize that they don’t always know best! Listening to Cancer´s emotional wisdom and guidance at the very least is one sure way to maintain balance and harmonious energy flow.
Positive keywords and high compatibility: beauty, romance, family, luxurious and comfortable home, harmony, and strong dislike of conflict.
Cancer x Libra – Friendships and Platonic Partnerships
These two seem at odds with each other. If you were to observe the different characters in a friendship circle or social group, Cancer and Libra would look like the two completely worlds apart, apparently not even connected! They don’t have an organic or natural bond, so any connection they were hoping to establish would have to be made with effort, mindfulness, and conscious communication and emotional intelligence. Not just anyone can make it work with a Cancer; if you don’t have some depth or inner emotional balance, this deep and magical sign will simply cast you off as another robot of society, or superficial jerk!
Ok, maybe that’s a bit harsh. The point is, Cancer dislikes and is intolerant to superficiality and fakeness. Not being connected to your emotional body and senses is seen as living superficially. Simultaneously Libra often views Cancer as too emotional and way too sensitive; they simply don’t understand Cancer´s passive, spiritual, nurturing and sweet energy. There are quite a lot of misunderstandings here. For business? They could work well together providing they keep healthy boundaries and play to each other’s strengths!
Things to watch out for: Red Flags & Warnings!
One of the main issues with this pairing is Libra’s need to be intellectually superior, and over-analyze their emotions. Libra can be quite too cold and detached for Cancer´s liking. As a result, Cancer tries to bond and restore the love through hugs, kisses, intensity, and soul-merging, which they see as beautiful and positive and nothing less; but Libra doesn´t take it this way. This cerebral and rational (but intuitive) air sign perceives these acts of affection as clingy, another step towards codependency and away from healthy independence within a relationship. This one distortion alone can bring all sorts of misunderstandings and potential tension and resentment.
Secondly, because both of them despise conflict and even go as far as avoid it altogether, a lot of issues and dissatisfaction can go overlooked and pushed under the rug. When Cancer´s emotional and spiritual needs aren’t met, and they don’t engage in direct communication to express their needs, they eventually resort to depression, mood swings, bad tempers, and manipulation. Libra is actually quite temperamental with a hidden aggressive side, therefore this is not taken lightly. Libra sees manipulation as an attack on their personality, character, or self-identity, so you may only have to imagine the explosive arguments that may arise if both lovers decide to let their inner darkness come out… From the other perspective, Libra can come across as extremely provocative and condescending, and if it weren’t for Cancer´s limitless compassion and ability to bring a soothing energy (when at their best), this relationship might not stand any chance at all.
Sexual Synergy: 5
Emotions & Emotional Connection: 6.5
Intellectual & Psychological Connection: 7
True Love/Soulmate Compatibility: 6
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